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After kissing the next step is not making the plunge, you can still keep using your lips and tongue to make your partner excited. Licking, sucking and bate gently really a high pleasant thing you can experience. a fantastic licker can make you feel more then fuck or being fuck.
Some people unlike the smell and the taste repulsive, if you don’t, don’t take it in your mouth. Women usually taste and smell more intensely than men. I have a little thought about it but I never try…. Using ice-cream to cover the taste :p it will be cold, sexy, and taste better :p if that idea is too extreme for you, maybe you can try chocolate sauce or jam.
Spread him/her legs, take a look and tell him/her how beautiful/handsome he/she looks.
For Lady - Gentle licking can send her over the edge and rhythm is the key, you have to tune in to her responses. What turned her on one day, may not work the next. Place your hands under her butt and gently lift her towards your mouth. Reach up and stroke her nipples. Lot you can do other then just concentrate on her vagina.
For Man - The outside perimeter of the glens penis is the corona. This joins the head to the shaft. This is the most sensitive spot on the penis. It is toward this ridge that you will direct most of your attention when you are giving head. Follow this ridge around to the underside of the penis. One thing you might have to know, a penis is always dry, your extra saliva may help him feel better.
After some enjoyable information, we do have do know some other information. Oral sex has been shown to be less risky to transmitted HIV than unprotected anal sex and unprotected vaginal sex, but it is not risk free. It is also possible to get other sexually-transmitted diseases (such as syphilis, herpes, and gonorrhea) through oral sex and still have to remind you is low risk to transmitted HIV isn’t mean that is not exist.
Any type of sexual activity with an infected person carries a risk of HIV transmission. While the risk of becoming infected through unprotected oral sex is lower than that of unprotected anal or vaginal sex, bad oral hygiene and taking cum in your mouth makes oral sex more risky.
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HIV stands for Human Immunodeficiency Virus. HIV is the virus that causes AIDS (Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome). It attacks the immune system’s soldiers - the CD4 cells. When the immune system loses too many CD4 cells, you are less able to fight off infection and can develop serious opportunistic infections (OIs). A person is diagnosed with AIDS when he or she has less than 200 CD4 cells and/or one of 21 AIDS-defining OIs.
AIDS is the most advanced stage of HIV infection. AIDS is not caused by party drugs, AZT, government conspiracies, or anything else but a virus. When someone dies of AIDS, it is usually opportunistic infections or other long-term effects of HIV infection that cause death. AIDS refers to the body’s immune-compromised state that can no longer stop OIs from developing and becoming so deadly.
People don’t have AIDS as soon as they are infected with HIV. they can be HIV+ for many years with no signs of disease, or only mild-to-moderate symptoms. But without treatment, HIV will eventually wear down the immune system in most people to the point that they develop more serious OIs.
There is only one reliable way to find HIV status and that is to take the HIV test. The most common test is an antibody test called ELISA. A positive result means you have antibodies for HIV and you are infected with the virus. Most people can not tell that they have been exposed or infected. It can take up to 12 weeks for an HIV test to come back positive. However most people respond much faster. Within two to four weeks of exposure to HIV, you might have flu-like symptoms such as fever, swollen glands, muscle aches, or rash.
There is no cure for HIV. But there are drugs that can slow down the virus and protect your immune system. There are also drugs to treat and prevent OIs. Being unaware of your status also makes it more likely to unknowingly pass HIV to others.
HIV is only spread through the Blood, Semen, Vaginal fluids, Breast milk and the most common ways HIV is passed from one person to another are Reusing and sharing needles,
Unprotected sex, Mother-to-child, During pregnancy, during birth, or through breastfeeding. HIV cannot be spread through tears, sweat, and saliva. Casual contact is not risky because it does not include contact with infectious body fluids. Examples of casual contact include: social kissing, use of public facilities (pools, theaters, bathrooms), sharing drinks or eating utensils, etc. Insect bites do not transmit HIV.
Listed from most to least risky
- Receptive anal sex (”bottoming”) remains the most risky activity, due to the likelihood of direct semen-blood contact. But penetrative anal sex (”topping”) with someone can result in HIV transmission, too.
- Vaginal intercourse puts both partners at risk, but HIV is transmitted from men to women much more easily than from women to men.
- Oral sex can be risky for the person performing it, particularly if he or she swallows semen, vaginal fluids, or menstrual fluids.
- Sharing sex toys without sterilizing them can be dangerous.
- Rimming (licking the anus) is very unlikely to result in HIV infection.
- Mutual masturbation (hand jobs) and fisting (using a hand to penetrate the anus or vagina) are relatively risk-free, as long as your hand has no open cuts or sores.
- Sexual assault can result in infection if the assailant is HIV+. The risk increases when rape involves anal penetration, force, and/or multiple assailants. Some forced sexual acts involving wounds can place a victim at very high risk.
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The G-sport, Originally known as the Grafenberg Spot, the G-Spot was named after the gynaecologist Ernst Gräfenberg, who first described it in 1944. There are specialists that defend the existence in women on the frontal wall of the vagina of an extremely sensitive point. Most believe it is a small area that women have, of 0.75 to 3 centimeters in diameter located behind the front wall of the vagina, between the superior part of the pubic symphysis and the uterine cervix. When stimulated, it can produce intensely pleasurable feelings for the woman, and may cause her to have an orgasm
The P-sport, It is located in the rectus, at the level of the prostate and would be named the P-spot (from “prostate”). The prostate gland secrets fluids which are pumped into a liquid mix that forms the semen and plays an important role in ejaculation (thus male orgasm). The most direct way to prostate stimulation is through anal penetration. In the same way, the rhythmic pressure on the front wall of the vagina gets to and stimulates the G-spot, pressure on the front wall of the rectum reaches the P-spot.
There are a number of different theories about what the G-spot or P-sport area actually is, but the important thing is to find out what you’ve got and what you like. So, throughout your sex you’ll both need to be communicating. What works, what feels good, what doesn’t, a little to the right, a little to the left, etc. 
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A kiss is the act of caressing with the lips. In modern Western culture, it is most commonly an expression of affection. Between people of close acquaintance kissing is done as a greeting or a good-bye, kissing each other on the cheek, but today I am not going to write something about greeting or good-bye kiss… I like to talk more about the passion and sexy of kiss :p
For first kiss you can always try a gentle lip kiss! If you confident enough, they will never know it’s your first kiss, unless you tell. Remember to keep your lips closed. If you open up, you’re inviting a tongue kiss. If you do like to invite for a tongue kiss, try lean in and press your lips onto your partner’s lips, softly, so you don’t bump teeth. If you do bump teeth accidentally, laugh it off, just carry on kissing. Who care if it only happens once or twice? Be confident in it, once you have decide you are going to kiss someone, choose your moment and go for it. Nothing ruins a kiss more than uncertainty.
Variety is the word of passionately of kiss. Sometimes you’re gentle, sometimes you’re rough. Tease your partner with a little bite on the lips or you may want to move to the neck. There are many things you can do to heighten a kiss, you can hold or stroke your partner’s back, run your fingers through their hair, or feel other parts of their body.
A love bite is a red mark left on the skin, caused by excessive lip suction on the skin. It can be a charming memento of the kissing session or a repulsive and embarrassing bruise. It’s really depending on a person’s point of view, so is better to discuss the giving or receiving of a love bite with your partner, before leaving one.
At the end something you have to check before you kiss. Check your breath. If in doubt about your breath, suck a breath mint.
Hope you learn a bit about, how to perfect that kiss for that special person in your life. 
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Before you consider having sex, you need to know how to protect yourself and other. Condoms are the only way to stop the transmission of sexually transmitted diseases (including HIV) and is it one of the most reliable methods of birth control when use properly and consistently. It make sex less messy, can help to increase the fun and enjoyment of making love because it come with various shapes, colors, flavors, textures and sizes and the most important part is condom have none medical side-effects.
When you buy condoms, don’t get embarrassed. You should be proud!!! It shows that you are responsible and confident. Shopping for condoms with friend or partner can be fun. It’s not a good idea to find yourself having to rush out at the crucial moment to buy condoms so keep condoms handy at all times (believe me, it is an important thing must do).Condoms are made in different lengths and widths, but there is no standard length for condoms, though those made from natural rubber will in addition always stretch if necessary to fit the length of the man’s erect penis. Some condoms have a slightly smaller width to give a “closer” fit, whereas others will be slightly larger.
With anal intercourse, standard condoms are effective as long as they are used correctly with plenty of lubricant or you can use thicker condom.
*Condoms with a lubricant containing Nonoxynol 9 should NOT be used for anal sex as Nonoxynol 9 damages the lining of the rectum increasing the risk of HIV and other STD transmission.
There are male condoms and female condoms. A male condom is a thin latex (a type of rubber) sheath that is worn on the penis. A female condom is a polyurethane sheath with a flexible ring at either end. One end is closed and is inserted into the vagina, the other end is open and the ring sits outside the opening of the vagina. The male condom is far more widely used and is sometimes called a “rubber” or “prophylactic.”
The condom works by keeping semen (the fluid that contains sperm) from entering the vagina. The male and female condoms should not be used at the same time because they can get stuck together and cause one or the other to slip during intercourse, making them ineffective.
A used condom should be thrown in the garbage, not down the toilet. A new condom should be used each time you have sex to prevent pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). Never use oil-based lubricants such as mineral oil, petroleum jelly, or baby oil with condoms because these substances can break down the rubber.
Most male condoms are made of latex. Those made of lambskin may offer less protection against some STDs, including HIV, so use of latex condoms is recommended. For people who may have an allergic skin reaction to latex, both male and female condoms made of polyurethane are available.