A generation ago a huge proportion of women believe it was ‘normal’ to have no experience of orgasm and a lot of them weren’t bothered about it, but all that has changed now. Furthermore, the view of most sex experts is that the majority of women are capable of multiple orgasms. In general, the ability to have multiple orgasms is greater in more mature women.

What happens in a woman’s body during a climax is very like what happens in male body when they ejaculate. In other words, there’s a feeling of increasing excitement, building up to a point where everything ‘blows’ in a great blast of ecstasy. This ‘orgasmic moment’ is characterised by surges of contractions in the sex organs, occurring almost every 0.8 seconds. (Written by Dr David Delvin, GP and family planning specialist and Christine Webber, psychotherapist)

Relatively most women can eventually achieve the capacity for multiple orgasms, this is the big difference between male and female orgasm.

That is some different man and women. Men can reach a climax by pumping out of spurts of seminal fluid. Obviously this doesn’t happen in women. A romantic ambiance will help women reach a climax easily. Kisses, cuddles, take things gently, natural or additional lubrication to masturbate. All this will help.