As a healthy young man as I am, I think I am qualified to write a short writing about this. Every men have two head, one above the neck as everyone knew it have a brain, another one hanging between they legs, people call it “dick head“.

When man get horny, normally his brain stop function of making decision. he start using his small head to think instead of the big one. Lot men deny it in front of friends and family or partner but the fact is the fact. When a man get horny, he can’t border is he doing the right thing or whatever. He just need it. He is like a drug addict needing drug, the different is he feel hot and too much energy in his body waiting to explode. It’s good if the left hand or right hand, or both hand can be satisfied it need, but sometime it just don’t help much, one after another it is still. Maybe I should give an example; it’s like you are hungry but you only feed yourself water. how can you expect it stop starving? It might be stop for a while but what really need is food. Because of this reason, some people decide to keep another person as permanent meat, and hope he can satisfied by eating the same meat for the rest of his life but not everyone success by this idea. Some end up being naughty secretly one a while, some accept and be proud to have second head and like very much to allow it function once a while (actually very often). So next time if someone call you dick head, don’t be surprised. Try to accept it, we all have one and we are :p

I have a habit; I collect postcard, flyer or brochure. It is not my hobby but my habit for work. I had a collection not long ago ”Think Again”, it is about the different of HIV+ and HIV- gay man thinking. The cover look nice (that is why I pick it up when I first saw it) and I like it because the information starts with a story of Bill and Ben.

bill’s story.
I met the most gorgeous man last night. Ben. He was so cute. And so me! Deep voice. Very butch. Eyes that looked right into you. Smart eyes. He was intelligent – not the “cute but dumb” type I usually fall for. The chemistry was electric. Anyway I was pretty sure we were going to spend the night together. I was really interested in Ben. A friend of mine had found out they were HIV-positive that day. He’s only twenty-five. So I guess it was on my mind – and so I talked about it. Don’t think about HIV a lot normally. Ten minutes later he had to go… I don’t know what I did wrong.

ben’s story
Bill is really cute. He is a good friend of this guy Robert I work with – but he doesn’t know that. Robert is a real gossip. So I haven’t told Robert that I have HIV. I don’t think my work needs to know. So when Ben started talking about HIV I know he was going to ask… If he did I was going to say, “It’s a secret”. But I know if it went any further I’d have to tell. I guess I panicked and fled. It was easiest not to deal with it.

You can download the brochure online by going to: http://www.thinkagain.com.au/camp.htm

PS: if one day I want to write a gay man love story, maybe a good idea to complete story of Bill and Ben. :p

Anal sex mostly include anal intercourse (penetration of the anus with the penis or, possibly, with a dildo or vibrator), fisting (insertion of the fingers, hand, or even the forearm, into the anus), rimming (oral contact with the anus for sexual stimulation).Most straight-male fear of reciprocal anal play is a potent mix of sexism and homophobia; a straight man can do it to someone else, but having it done to him isn’t okay.

In premodern societies, including ancient Greece and premodern Japan, anal sex was associated with gay relationships. In modern times, particularly in Western cultures, anal sex has been popularly associated with gay and bisexual men. Among gay men who have anal sex, some consistently take the top (insertive) or bottom (receptive) role, but this is not always the case: some men who have anal sex act as both top and bottom at different times. This is known as “versatile” or “switch”.

In several cultures female receptive anal intercourse in a heterosexual context is widely accepted, especially as there is very low risk of unwanted pregnancy via unprotected anal intercourse (though this is not an absolute guarantee, since semen can leak from the anus, across the perineum, and enter the vagina). Another reason is that the anus is considered to be tighter than the vagina, therefore yielding more tactile pleasure for the penis.

Gentleness, care, adequate lubrication and anal relaxation are required so as not to cause pain or injury. It is important to use a water-based lubricant. Anal fucking without lubricant can not only be hugely painful, it also greatly increases the risk of tears and cuts to the lining of the rectum as well as the risk of breakage of the condom.

For those who like to try, in first, you can always try gently inserting a lubricated finger perhaps covered by a condom or glove into the anus first. Next they should try and insert two fingers. If this is successfully achieved it may be time to try with a well-lubricated penis

Most sexual activities carry a risk of transmission of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) from gonorrhoea and herpes, to hepatitis B and HIV. There is evidence that anal intercourse carries a higher transmission risk than almost any other sexual activity. Condoms with a lubricant containing Nonoxynol 9 should NOT be used for anal sex as Nonoxynol 9 damages the lining of the rectum increasing the risk of HIV and other STD transmission.

Some people report enhanced sexual experience under the influence of some drug, this in not everyone’s experience, not necessarily the experience of their non-drug affected partners. At best drug can enhance a sexual experience; at worst it can kill you. If you respect yourself and others, you’re more likely to make a responsible decision and avoid some of the pitfalls along the way.

Cocaine is a stimulant drug. In small doses it can increase sexual arousal and make orgasms and erections easier but in larger amounts, cocaine can still fuel sexual desire, while decreasing the ability to actually perform properly. Problems achieving erection and orgasm are very common.

Some people take poppers during sex because they enjoy the brief, intense head rush and relaxant effect. Particularly popular among gay men. Alkyl nitrites in poppers reduce blood pressure. This means Viagra users should steer clear as the combination could be fatal.

Male drugs users may find the penis is less sensitive or responsive, and ejaculation difficult to achieve. Females may experience some fertility problems due to changes in ovulation and menstrual cycles.

People with HIV are the possible interaction of recreational drugs and HIV antiviral drags. Protease inhibitors in particular tend to take priority over other drugs in the liver. This means that longer to break down. Ritonavir, for example, which is probably the HIV medication to be most wary about, can be particularly dangerous when taken with Ecstasy, Speed or Crystal Meth.

During sex much is unspoken, but your thoughts and your partner’s may not be the same.

I had a conversation with a friend yesterday and he asked me a question: what is the kinkiest sex I ever had? To be honest, I have no idea how kinky people can be nowaday. Back in the 80’s, oral sex was considered kinky. Piss, S&M, candle and more came in the 90’s. The more we talk, the more we feel the word “kinky” is out now. Since we have Extreme Sports too today, i will name the kind of sex in this article “Extreme Sex”. If you want to know why I said that, continue to read, otherwise go to another page!

Years ago I received a forward email from a friend. It was a short video of a lady putting some small fish in her vagina, those fish were still alive and jumping up and down. She didn’t put only one or two of them in her, I am talking about 20 or more fish. Can you imagine what will happen with those fish in her vagina?

If you have been to Thailand, you may have experience the “Vagina Table Tennis” show. I don’t know how they can put so much balls in her vagina and how the pressure can make those balls fly everywhere, even aiming at a target! I have no idea how it can help in sex performance….

If what I tell is still not extreme for you, how about a human fucked by a dog? Or sucking a house’s dick? I really saw those pictures!

I heard a true story about a man who likes shoes. He likes leather and sport shoes. He loves the smell and enjoys licking it and he climaxes when someone wears them while stepping on him and his penis. 

Fisting, can you imagine a hand in your ass? Others like to have anal sex when the ass is full of shit, and the most extreme information I heard was a guy enjoying someone to shit directly in his mouth, even willing to pay people for it. He will climax when it happen.

So do you think I may call these activities Extreme Sex? I have no comment about all those sexual ideas. As long as a guy enjoys it and another one doing it to him does it too, I have no right to say anything bad about him….. only thing is: try your best to do it safe, if you are one of those who enjoys Extreme Sex.
 
 Amend/Correct by Chris.

A generation ago a huge proportion of women believe it was ‘normal’ to have no experience of orgasm and a lot of them weren’t bothered about it, but all that has changed now. Furthermore, the view of most sex experts is that the majority of women are capable of multiple orgasms. In general, the ability to have multiple orgasms is greater in more mature women.

What happens in a woman’s body during a climax is very like what happens in male body when they ejaculate. In other words, there’s a feeling of increasing excitement, building up to a point where everything ‘blows’ in a great blast of ecstasy. This ‘orgasmic moment’ is characterised by surges of contractions in the sex organs, occurring almost every 0.8 seconds. (Written by Dr David Delvin, GP and family planning specialist and Christine Webber, psychotherapist)

Relatively most women can eventually achieve the capacity for multiple orgasms, this is the big difference between male and female orgasm.

That is some different man and women. Men can reach a climax by pumping out of spurts of seminal fluid. Obviously this doesn’t happen in women. A romantic ambiance will help women reach a climax easily. Kisses, cuddles, take things gently, natural or additional lubrication to masturbate. All this will help.

Am I gay/lesbian? This is a very common question for youngster. If you have this question in your mind and you hope to find out without telling anyone. Why not you try to type in this question to some search angina? They have some online test that may can tell you the answer. Before that I want to tell you the true here, very few of us are 100% heterosexual (straight) or 100% homosexual (gay/lesbian), it is really depend, if you are somewhere between 50% - 50%, we have another group call Bisexuals (bi).

Random fantasies and even sexual encounters don’t make you straight, gay/lesbian or bi. You’re really only gay when you’ve concluded, without a doubt, that you enjoy males sexually more than females, and same other way round.

Another thing I have to say here; you don’t have to have sex to know if you’re heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual. When you’re emotionally ready and you find someone you care about, you will know automatically. Sexual orientation not all about sex, that is something emotion to make you sure what you really are. We call it Love.

Once you recognize your sexual orientation. If you are homosexual or bisexual, the next steps will be self acceptance. Self acceptance is all about feeling good about yourself and comfortable with your own sexuality. Unfortunately our society still teaches us that same sex attractions are negative and makes it difficult for one to explore his or her sexuality. But don’t be grieved, you do nothing wrong, and it is your life. You live for yourself not for other. Be what you are and be true to yourself. Some gay man regret after 30 years married to a lady. Ask yourself, do you want that happen to you just because you wan to hide your sexual orientation to some people may not be with you in your future life? At that time you are not only be sorry to yourself but your wife and children.

You born nature homosexual/bisexuals, or environment and experiences make you become what you are, or both. However, I can sure one thing, YOU ARE NOT SICK. So stop asking why you are gay/lesbian, if you are. Why is it important to determine why you are homosexual? No one asks why they are heterosexuals.

Masturbation is the physical stimulation of the sexual organs to produce feelings of pleasure. It is a normal and natural activity and is not bad for you unless you masturbate so much that you make your genital area sore.

However, ejaculating semen reduces the sexual tension that builds up in adult and especially teenagers and ejaculating regularly isn’t just fun, it can actually help prevent a certain kind of cancer later in life.

Men usually masturbate by grasping the penis and moving their hand up and down rapidly until they ejaculate. Girls masturbate by rubbing the outside of their vagina, or by inserting something (such as a vibrator) into the vagina. However, everybody has their own way of masturbating that feels good for them.

The penis is the male organ used for urination and sexual intercourse. It is made of spongy tissue and blood vessels. The shaft of the penis surrounds the urethra and is connected to the pubic bone. The foreskin covers the head (glans) of the penis. The foreskin is removed if the boy is circumcised.

Circumcision isn’t a necessary medical procedure. The medical reasons for circumcision, will be Phimosis or Balanitis. People think they may need circumcision if they have tight foreskin, but I found something interesting online, it said; A study in the British Journal of Sexual Medicine in 1997 of men aged 18-22 found that those with a tight foreskin either never masturbated or used an unusual technique. Once they did masturbate in a more conventional way, the problem righted itself in a few weeks. You can always try it before you really think about circumcision, it’s just few weeks.

An uncircumcised penis is one with its foreskin intact. Normal bathing is enough to keep it clean. It is NOT recommended to pull back the foreskin for cleaning during infancy and childhood. This may injure the foreskin and cause scarring that could make retraction painful and difficult later in life.

Teenage boys should be taught to gently retract the foreskin during bathing and clean the penis thoroughly. After cleaning the penis, dry the area completely. Then, it is very important to pull the foreskin back over the head of the penis. Otherwise, the foreskin would slightly constrict the head of the penis, causing swelling and pain.

Circumcised men do not know what they are missing. The uncircumcised penis is more sensitive then completely, because of the progressive desensitization of the exposed glans from exposure and rubbing against clothes.

Male Organ

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Boy and girl, I have a question for your all. Do penis size do matter to you? If your answer yes. What size you like better?

When come to size, why not we talk about sensitive first before that. Most believe it is a small area that women have, of 0.75 to 3 centimeters in diameter located behind the front wall of the vagina (G-sport), the outer lips, called the labia majora, are fleshy, padded, and hairy and the inner lips, or labia minora, are slippery little buggers that have no hair follicles. I am not a lady but I think those are the most sensitive parts of a vagina. (lady, let me know if you think I am wrong).

Since all the most sensitive parts are not deep inside, do you think the length of you penis are the most important part for sex? I can say it here, I perfect sex experience is a combination of the touch, movement, passion, environment, mood, rhythm and more. It’s not only your size BOY! If you have about 5 inches you are conceder in good size, all you need to know is technique to perform it.

Other then length, thickness will be next consideration factor. Who will like to feel like labor when someone in to her? Who like to feel nothing when making the plunge? Each person is different physically for the thickness. I can’t give you a right answer here, as long as you are not too thick or too thin, you are fine.

Even anal sex is the same. How deep you think anal can be? Do you think or feel better if the penis go through your large intestine? If you really do, I think better call it large intestine sex then calls it anal sex. If your partner is a size queen why not just give him/her a fisting? Or buy him/her a large size toy to play together maybe another ideas :p

A large DICK is good to look at and nice to touch but not for being fuck by it. Confidence is a key. Size hasn’t been the first factor that ultimately made sex good or bad. It really matter is what you both enjoy most.

After kissing the next step is not making the plunge, you can still keep using your lips and tongue to make your partner excited. Licking, sucking and bate gently really a high pleasant thing you can experience. a fantastic licker can make you feel more then fuck or being fuck.

Some people unlike the smell and the taste repulsive, if you don’t, don’t take it in your mouth. Women usually taste and smell more intensely than men. I have a little thought about it but I never try…. Using ice-cream to cover the taste :p it will be cold, sexy, and taste better :p if that idea is too extreme for you, maybe you can try chocolate sauce or jam.

Spread him/her legs, take a look and tell him/her how beautiful/handsome he/she looks.

For Lady - Gentle licking can send her over the edge and rhythm is the key, you have to tune in to her responses. What turned her on one day, may not work the next. Place your hands under her butt and gently lift her towards your mouth. Reach up and stroke her nipples. Lot you can do other then just concentrate on her vagina.

For Man - The outside perimeter of the glens penis is the corona. This joins the head to the shaft. This is the most sensitive spot on the penis. It is toward this ridge that you will direct most of your attention when you are giving head. Follow this ridge around to the underside of the penis. One thing you might have to know, a penis is always dry, your extra saliva may help him feel better.

After some enjoyable information, we do have do know some other information. Oral sex has been shown to be less risky to transmitted HIV than unprotected anal sex and unprotected vaginal sex, but it is not risk free. It is also possible to get other sexually-transmitted diseases (such as syphilis, herpes, and gonorrhea) through oral sex and still have to remind you is low risk to transmitted HIV isn’t mean that is not exist.

Any type of sexual activity with an infected person carries a risk of HIV transmission. While the risk of becoming infected through unprotected oral sex is lower than that of unprotected anal or vaginal sex, bad oral hygiene and taking cum in your mouth makes oral sex more risky.

HIV stands for Human Immunodeficiency Virus. HIV is the virus that causes AIDS (Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome). It attacks the immune system’s soldiers - the CD4 cells. When the immune system loses too many CD4 cells, you are less able to fight off infection and can develop serious opportunistic infections (OIs). A person is diagnosed with AIDS when he or she has less than 200 CD4 cells and/or one of 21 AIDS-defining OIs.

AIDS is the most advanced stage of HIV infection. AIDS is not caused by party drugs, AZT, government conspiracies, or anything else but a virus. When someone dies of AIDS, it is usually opportunistic infections or other long-term effects of HIV infection that cause death. AIDS refers to the body’s immune-compromised state that can no longer stop OIs from developing and becoming so deadly.

People don’t have AIDS as soon as they are infected with HIV. they can be HIV+ for many years with no signs of disease, or only mild-to-moderate symptoms. But without treatment, HIV will eventually wear down the immune system in most people to the point that they develop more serious OIs.

There is only one reliable way to find HIV status and that is to take the HIV test. The most common test is an antibody test called ELISA. A positive result means you have antibodies for HIV and you are infected with the virus. Most people can not tell that they have been exposed or infected. It can take up to 12 weeks for an HIV test to come back positive. However most people respond much faster. Within two to four weeks of exposure to HIV, you might have flu-like symptoms such as fever, swollen glands, muscle aches, or rash.

There is no cure for HIV. But there are drugs that can slow down the virus and protect your immune system. There are also drugs to treat and prevent OIs. Being unaware of your status also makes it more likely to unknowingly pass HIV to others.

HIV is only spread through the Blood, Semen, Vaginal fluids, Breast milk and the most common ways HIV is passed from one person to another are Reusing and sharing needles,
Unprotected sex, Mother-to-child, During pregnancy, during birth, or through breastfeeding. HIV cannot be spread through tears, sweat, and saliva. Casual contact is not risky because it does not include contact with infectious body fluids. Examples of casual contact include: social kissing, use of public facilities (pools, theaters, bathrooms), sharing drinks or eating utensils, etc. Insect bites do not transmit HIV.

Listed from most to least risky

• Receptive anal sex (”bottoming”) remains the most risky activity, due to the likelihood of direct semen-blood contact. But penetrative anal sex (”topping”) with someone can result in HIV transmission, too.
• Vaginal intercourse puts both partners at risk, but HIV is transmitted from men to women much more easily than from women to men. 
• Oral sex can be risky for the person performing it, particularly if he or she swallows semen, vaginal fluids, or menstrual fluids. 
• Sharing sex toys without sterilizing them can be dangerous. 
• Rimming (licking the anus) is very unlikely to result in HIV infection. 
• Mutual masturbation (hand jobs) and fisting (using a hand to penetrate the anus or vagina) are relatively risk-free, as long as your hand has no open cuts or sores. 
• Sexual assault can result in infection if the assailant is HIV+. The risk increases when rape involves anal penetration, force, and/or multiple assailants. Some forced sexual acts involving wounds can place a victim at very high risk.

The G-sport, Originally known as the Grafenberg Spot, the G-Spot was named after the gynaecologist Ernst Gräfenberg, who first described it in 1944. There are specialists that defend the existence in women on the frontal wall of the vagina of an extremely sensitive point. Most believe it is a small area that women have, of 0.75 to 3 centimeters in diameter located behind the front wall of the vagina, between the superior part of the pubic symphysis and the uterine cervix. When stimulated, it can produce intensely pleasurable feelings for the woman, and may cause her to have an orgasm

The P-sport, It is located in the rectus, at the level of the prostate and would be named the P-spot (from “prostate”). The prostate gland secrets fluids which are pumped into a liquid mix that forms the semen and plays an important role in ejaculation (thus male orgasm). The most direct way to prostate stimulation is through anal penetration. In the same way, the rhythmic pressure on the front wall of the vagina gets to and stimulates the G-spot, pressure on the front wall of the rectum reaches the P-spot.

There are a number of different theories about what the G-spot or P-sport area actually is, but the important thing is to find out what you’ve got and what you like. So, throughout your sex you’ll both need to be communicating. What works, what feels good, what doesn’t, a little to the right, a little to the left, etc.

A kiss is the act of caressing with the lips. In modern Western culture, it is most commonly an expression of affection. Between people of close acquaintance kissing is done as a greeting or a good-bye, kissing each other on the cheek, but today I am not going to write something about greeting or good-bye kiss… I like to talk more about the passion and sexy of kiss :p

For first kiss you can always try a gentle lip kiss! If you confident enough, they will never know it’s your first kiss, unless you tell. Remember to keep your lips closed. If you open up, you’re inviting a tongue kiss. If you do like to invite for a tongue kiss, try lean in and press your lips onto your partner’s lips, softly, so you don’t bump teeth. If you do bump teeth accidentally, laugh it off, just carry on kissing. Who care if it only happens once or twice? Be confident in it, once you have decide you are going to kiss someone, choose your moment and go for it. Nothing ruins a kiss more than uncertainty.

Variety is the word of passionately of kiss. Sometimes you’re gentle, sometimes you’re rough. Tease your partner with a little bite on the lips or you may want to move to the neck. There are many things you can do to heighten a kiss, you can hold or stroke your partner’s back, run your fingers through their hair, or feel other parts of their body.

A love bite is a red mark left on the skin, caused by excessive lip suction on the skin. It can be a charming memento of the kissing session or a repulsive and embarrassing bruise. It’s really depending on a person’s point of view, so is better to discuss the giving or receiving of a love bite with your partner, before leaving one.

At the end something you have to check before you kiss. Check your breath. If in doubt about your breath, suck a breath mint.

Hope you learn a bit about, how to perfect that kiss for that special person in your life.

Before you consider having sex, you need to know how to protect yourself and other. Condoms are the only way to stop the transmission of sexually transmitted diseases (including HIV) and is it one of the most reliable methods of birth control when use properly and consistently. It make sex less messy, can help to increase the fun and enjoyment of making love because it come with various shapes, colors, flavors, textures and sizes and the most important part is condom have none medical side-effects.

When you buy condoms, don’t get embarrassed. You should be proud!!! It shows that you are responsible and confident. Shopping for condoms with friend or partner can be fun. It’s not a good idea to find yourself having to rush out at the crucial moment to buy condoms so keep condoms handy at all times (believe me, it is an important thing must do).Condoms are made in different lengths and widths, but there is no standard length for condoms, though those made from natural rubber will in addition always stretch if necessary to fit the length of the man’s erect penis. Some condoms have a slightly smaller width to give a “closer” fit, whereas others will be slightly larger.

With anal intercourse, standard condoms are effective as long as they are used correctly with plenty of lubricant or you can use thicker condom.
*Condoms with a lubricant containing Nonoxynol 9 should NOT be used for anal sex as Nonoxynol 9 damages the lining of the rectum increasing the risk of HIV and other STD transmission.

There are male condoms and female condoms. A male condom is a thin latex (a type of rubber) sheath that is worn on the penis. A female condom is a polyurethane sheath with a flexible ring at either end. One end is closed and is inserted into the vagina, the other end is open and the ring sits outside the opening of the vagina. The male condom is far more widely used and is sometimes called a “rubber” or “prophylactic.”

The condom works by keeping semen (the fluid that contains sperm) from entering the vagina. The male and female condoms should not be used at the same time because they can get stuck together and cause one or the other to slip during intercourse, making them ineffective.

A used condom should be thrown in the garbage, not down the toilet. A new condom should be used each time you have sex to prevent pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). Never use oil-based lubricants such as mineral oil, petroleum jelly, or baby oil with condoms because these substances can break down the rubber.

Most male condoms are made of latex. Those made of lambskin may offer less protection against some STDs, including HIV, so use of latex condoms is recommended. For people who may have an allergic skin reaction to latex, both male and female condoms made of polyurethane are available.